“Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.” — James Baldwin

"I want to be a better speaker," they said.
What does that mean for you? I ask.
"I want to be more confident, engaging, at ease; I want to enjoy speaking."
"When do you feel the most comfortable in your skin?"
"How is this connected?"
"It is all connected."
"Okay then, when I am with those who love me and whom I love"
"Okay then, try loving the ones you are speaking to/with and believe they love you back - see what happens."
...
"I tried it."
"What happened?"
"People responded well; it felt good."
"Beautiful. Now we can begin."